It’s these “almost” relationships that kill us
There are a million and one reasons you can’t be together
You never saw this person coming
And you tried everything you could to not get attached
But the sleepovers began to mean something
The kisses were like nothing you’d ever felt before
You knew it was so much more then two people
Then two friends spending the night
More then a hookup here and there
You found yourself wanting to be in their arms always
You found yourself thinking about them in everything you do
But a part of you knew it couldn’t be
Not now
Maybe not ever
But there was something special about this person
Something real
Something worth waiting for
Something worth making sacrifices for
You clung onto their hand when the storms came
You held them when it passed
You mended them back to health
You did everything for them
And you got nothing in return
Because the reasons remained
So you got hurt and picked yourself up again
Because you saw so much happiness with this person
You saw a future
It was bright and it was so good
So bright it blinded you
These almost relationships destroy us
They destroy us because they are filled with what ifs
And fake promises
And so much potential
And you fall for it all
But those reasons will always remain
And you will see that there really was no future
That this person didn’t choose you for reasons
Some of them completely out of your control
Some of them simply because you weren’t enough
Or you were too much
It was too real it was scary
There was someone else he cared for more
Whatever it is,
It isn’t always your fault,
And don’t convince yourself it wasn’t real
Because you will drive yourself mad
Me and you never got the ending I wanted
We never sat down and closed the book
We never wrote the last lines
So you are angry
And I am sad
And since there was no official beginning
I guess there will be no official ending
I guess it will forever be a “what if” story
A half written novel
But the feelings were real
And you couldn’t handle it
And you still can’t handle it
So now you will stuck with these “what ifs”
And eventually I won’t think about them anymore
Because I will accept what we had
I will accept what could have been
And I will smile at you
And my smile will remind you what you lost
Remind you of what you could have had
You will think about the birthdays we could have shared
The trips we planned
The adventures we spoke about
And I hope you regret it
I hope you regret everything
Because that means it was real
That means you cared
I just want to know you cared.
This is so honest. The “almost” relationships always get to us. Thanks for sharing. I wrote a post called “Vulnerability: Your Best Friend and Worst Nightmare” that you may enjoy, it’s about similar things. Boundaries and possibilities, relationships and walls. Hope you take a look. xoxo
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Thank you I appreciate the feedback! I will most definitely take a look at your post
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Wonderful! I thank you in advance for stopping by ❤️
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